Tips for staying sane as a single mom
December 26, 2012
It may feel like there are just too many things to accomplish during the day. Between work and school, kids and home, there always seems to be something left to do at the end of the day. Accepting that this is common for all families is the first step in helping single moms maintain stress levels and learn to relax, so they can focus on the most important things, like spending time with the kids and studying for college scholarships.
Manage income, minimize stress
Money is going to be a big part of the picture for moms on their own. Some are fortunate enough to get alimony and support from ex-spouses or the fathers of their children, but even in these cases, getting a job may be necessary in order to balance the budget. Obtaining financial aid for moms can help cut the burden regarding school expenses, but the Huffington Post wrote that one of the most important things moms can do is go easy on themselves. There are bound to be tight times, but buying store-brand cereal and shopping at Goodwill won't cause anyone pain.
A little love from friends
Surrounding themselves with understanding, sympathetic friends and family should be another part of a well-rounded single mom's lifestyle choices. Parents Online wrote that having a viable support system will help mothers do what needs to be done in order to balance daily activities, and these outlets can assist with more than just stress relief - they can also provide services that moms might otherwise have to pay for. Friends or family members who don't work may care for children for free, while others can be instrumental in creating carpools or setting up study groups.
Diet and daily sanity
Looking out for personal health is also a major choice that will help every aspect of daily life, from improving housework timeliness and studying more for college scholarship success, to better relationships with friends, family and coworkers. Single Mom Survives wrote that good eating choices and getting enough sleep are crucial for ongoing success. Even when it feels like there isn't enough time in the day, having a healthy eating and sleeping schedule will help keep other aspects of life under control.
