Getting help when you’re on your own
September 27, 2012
Single moms think they are all by themselves in a fight to manage money, handle housework and take care of children. Adding the demands of an educational experience can be too much to handle alone, but not all mothers are schooled in how to ask for help when they need it. There are plenty of programs available for single mothers in need, from college scholarships to government funding, providing all the essentials and support necessary to get through tough times.
Physical assistance
Working a full-time job is often the only option for a mom on her own raising one or more kids with no other sources of income. Looking into assistance for monetary and essential needs is a must for people in this situation, in order to keep the family running well.
State-funded programs through Social Security like WIC, food stamps and HUD help single moms get food, shelter and clothing, as well as toys sometimes for small children and personal care items for hygiene and cleanliness. Food pantries have limited hours but will also provide necessary assistance. An employer may sometimes also offer day care facilities, or the school you attend, so looking into these resources will allow more time to focus on learning and working to facilitate higher achievement.
Mental support
The emotional side of the situation can be harder to find help with. Therapists require co pays and health insurance, two things a single mother may not be able to afford for herself, and diversions like spa trips are often not feasible. Family may be unavailable and friends could be alienated by the addition of children to the social mix, but even when these people rally around you, having someone to relate to could still be a challenge.
Looking into support groups both online and in the neighborhood can help associate you with people in the same position, dealing with the same struggles, who might also have ideas on how to find more resources or handle certain problems. These programs are usually free to attend and participate in and can provide you and your children with emotional assistance during difficult times. Even when things are good, it is still helpful to be able to share that happiness with others who understand exactly where you are coming from.
