Advice for the single-parent student
June 14, 2012
Single moms or dads who receive a scholarship for parents to attend college often have needs beyond the typical returning student. It's tough for anyone to go back to school, but many believe college and children simply don't mix. Recently, however, this has changed, as more single parents are continuing their education, both online and on-campus. A few tips may help get the ball rolling for those considering joining the trend.
Find scholarships for single parents
Many schools now offer scholarships specifically for single parents. Check public schools such as the University of Wisconsin-Madison, the University of Arkansas or the University of Colorado, which all offer single parent scholarships.
Practice a balance
Sometimes it's tough to be both a good parent and a good student. Don't be afraid to reach out to friends and family when you need some baby-free study hours, but at the same time don't let college stress affect your relationship with your child. In a study published by the Journal of Higher Education, it was found that the children of single parents were important to academic success and were usually the reason for the decision to go back to school. Use your child as your inspiration and a daily reminder of why you want that degree.
Become chums with your advisor
Your college advisor is the gateway to all the opportunities at your school. Tell him or her about yourself and your unique situation, in order to personalize the advice in terms of classes and resources to take advantage of. Also, since your child's schedule is just as important as your class schedule, talk to your advisor about getting into the right time slots.
Use your school's services
"Parents in college always used the school resources more effectively than traditional-age students, because they are mature enough to understand how valuable the school resources are for them," said Curtis Bickman, a part-time advisor with Central Piedmont Community College in Charlotte, North Carolina, told the school news. Take advantage of all that your school has to offer, be it free counseling, writing services, job and apartment support or even childcare services.
You're in college, enjoy it
Coming in as a single parent may set you apart from many of your peers, but don't let that hold you back from enjoying college life. Go to school-sponsored activities, participate in clubs and grab the occasional drink after class with your new friends. Just because you're a parent doesn't mean you can't be a student, too.
