Moms can make friends in college too
October 4, 2012
There are a lot of fears women face when going back to college, especially single moms facing the challenges of work, class and kids. Sometimes these duties can seem so daunting that women feel like they do not have time for anything besides the most demanding activities. But all work and no play is a bad scenario for keeping a healthy mind and body, essential attributes of any woman who plans to maintain a single mother scholarship. In order to maintain social norms and stay happy, making friends in school is essential. It also helps to have somebody who can take notes for you or help you study.
Join a club
With all the other things going on in your life it may feel like there is no extra time for outside school activities. Joining an interest group looks good on a resume and promotes social interaction, finding mutual ground and forging friendships. For those concerned about managing study time with social hours, getting involved in a homework help club or like activity can provide multiple benefits at once. Some schools even have single mom or parent groups, encouraging those with analogous life experiences to come together and meet people who can really relate to their struggles.
Jobs and connectionsAs a single mother, you may not currently be gainfully employed, but seeking out a job is a good strategy for meeting new people. These environments require collaboration and give people an automatic conversation topic as they are just getting to know each other. Some schools offer on-campus work like in book stores, food courts and department offices, which allow moms to earn extra money and interact with peers. These programs are sometimes subsidized the same way college scholarships are, so paying outstanding balances on educational loans or the like can be expedited.
Don't get frustrated
Many moms may feel defeated before they even start searching for friends while others take longer to feel disappointed. Sometimes making friends won't happen immediately, and moms just need to consistently stay open to new people to encourage the likelihood of making connections. Using online resources to meet people is also a good idea, since sites like Facebook already provide channels for schools and jobs, connecting moms with the people they are most likely to have things in common with.
