Make Valentine’s Day special for the little loves in your life
February 9, 2012
There's no denying the fact that balancing the demands of going to college and being a mother can be challenging. Between classes, homework, jobs, housework, play dates, kids' activities and family time, any mom can easily feel overwhelmed by the responsibilities of being a student and a parent at the same time.
In addition, some student parents worry about the financial implications of getting a degree.
Whether they are able to work while taking classes or not, paying for college can be a financial stress for many. Luckily, moms who want to go to college have various resources to help make their dream of getting an education a reality. Grants for parents, college scholarships and other financial aid can lessen and even eliminate the anxiety many people feel about the financial burden getting a degree can pose.
As Valentine's Day approaches, student parents should take some time to show their children just how much they are loved.
Not only is celebrating this holiday with kids fun, but it can also help them in the long run. According to NorthJersey.com, a recent study conducted at Simmons College in Boston found that fostering a positive family environment has long-term positive implications for children.
"Children who feel valued within the family structure and can rely on family members for advice showed increased performance in academics, higher self-esteem and less occurrence of interpersonal problems, depression, drug use, aggression and anxiety later in life," the newspaper reported.
So, how can you make Valentine's Day fun and memorable for your little ones without spending a lot of money or time?
A store-bought or homemade Valentine's Day card will surely bring a smile to any child's face. Leave it to be easily discovered in the morning or set it at his or her place at the breakfast table. A small box of chocolates, conversation hearts or another special treat can complete the gift. Or, consider making a "date" to do something special together instead.
A little bit of decorating goes a long way, too. Hang red and pink streamers, balloons and paper hearts anywhere in your home to create a festive atmosphere.
Keep the Valentine's Day theme going throughout the day with food. Turn milk pink with some food coloring and cut nearly anything into a heart shape with a cookie cutter. (Try pancakes, toast, sandwiches, even hamburgers.)
Remember that making the day special for your child(ren) will help them feel loved beyond February 14th. Just a little bit of effort can make Valentine's Day a much-anticipated reason to celebrate every year!
